There are times where I wish I could go back and give my past pregnant self some bits of advice. Some of it could have changed my life path, others could have just make things a little bit simpler, but it would certainly be a cool thing to be able to do.
It’s funny because you can read advice from other people and hear the advice from professionals, but when you experience it yourself it just seems more real. Then you begin to realize that the advice you heard would have been handy if you believed.
Since going back in time is not possible, I suppose the next best thing is to learn from my “what-if’s” and “if only’s” and put those in to effect the next time I am lucky to be pregnant.
Have a look at 8 things you should do during your pregnancy so you don’t feel bad later that you didn’t:
Write Love Notes to Your Baby
You will love to read them later and so will your child. You can write weekly, monthly or even just one note. It will be fun to read back later how you were feeling, what your fears were and how your life was about to change. You won't remember things forever so these are great to have when you want to reminisce. Photo credit: photostock.
You will need to get a few as your breasts change during pregnancy and after birth, but it will make a huge difference! A proper fitting bra can help back pain and you'll be happy you took good care of the girls later. Photo credit: photostock.
Take it as often as you want and write it down because later, even if you have pictures, you won't believe how much you grew. Photo credit: photostock.
When your kids are older they will want to know more about your pregnancies and things. You will want to remember the answers to the fun questions they may ask like what you craved, so make it easier on yourself to remember and write it all down. Photo credit: photostock.
If you're someone who likes to keep mementos of your pregnancies (which I think you should), make sure you take a photo of your pregnancy test. You can keep the test too, but chances are the result window will fade and become hard to read. Having a picture of it -- you'll be able to always read. Photo credit: photostock.
I know that maternity clothes can be expensive, but some things are worth the money. Invest in a good-quality grow-with-you-type of maternity jeans because it will help in the long run. You will want to wear them often and getting one great pair, you'll save money having to buy more and more as you grow (and they break). Super-excellent if you think you'll have more than one pregnancy. Photo credit: photostock.
You probably don't have to do it every day, but even some exercise you will be happy that you did later. It can help keep off some of the extra weight gain, will help you "bounce back: quicker after birth and can even help make labor go more smoothly for you. Photo credit: photostock.
Devan McGuinness is the writer of the lifestyle blog Accustomed Chaos, which chronicles her life with a husband, 3 kids (and hoping for 1 more), 2 cats and living gluten-free. After surviving 12 miscarriages, Devan founded Unspoken Grief, a resource & support site for those touched by perinatal and neonatal loss.
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Social Auto-Sharing Facts:
Q: What's the deal with this 'Social Sharing' box I see on articles and videos? What's it do?
A. You can now automatically share with your friends everything you're reading and watching on Babble -- no more extra clicks or updates to inform your friends of the hottest posts and information from your favorite bloggers. Let them see what you're reading, have all your friends do the same and consider yourselves the most informed parents around.
Q: What if I don't want to share everything I'm doing? My boss will see I'm on Babble way too much, and I might be reading something on a sensitive topic that I don't want people seeing that I'm reading.
A. You're in total control -- turn sharing on, turn it off, or set your share setting to "Share only posts I choose to share." When this option is selected an option will appear above posts to share or not to share, just toggle it in between articles you want to share and those that you don't -- whatever you want.
Q: What if I shared something I didn't want to?
A. No worries, just click on "My Activity" and see the posts you have shared and click the "x" to delete or go to your Facebook Activity Log and delete the items you don't want to share. For questions about your Facebook activity log visit: http://www.facebook.com/help/activitylog
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