Readers Respond: If You Could Go Back to Before Your First Baby, What Would You Tell Yourself?

The saying “hindsight is 20/20” is one I hear often. Turns out it’s common for a reason — things seem so much clearer when we are looking back from the other side.

Pregnancy and early motherhood are one of those times in life that — while we can read all we want — nothing can truly prepare yourself for all that is going to happen. There are huge benefits to listening to other’s advice though (but don’t go giving advice unless you’ve been asked) and it’s often the insight from Moms who wish they could have done things a bit different that you will find the most wisdom.

Click through to read advice 15 Moms would give to themselves if they could go back in time:

  • Work Out 1 of 15
    Work Out
    "Work out and stay in shape even during the pregnancy and after even harder!" - Melissa
    Image: Ambro
  • It’s Me Not My Doctor 2 of 15
    It's Me Not My Doctor
    "No matter what the Doctor said no c-section to make it easier for him!!!!" - Leslie
    Image: photostock
  • Hard But Worth It 3 of 15
    Hard But Worth It
    "You may think you're prepared but you are never fully prepared. It's all worth it though!" - Regina
    Image: Maggie Smith
  • Trust You 4 of 15
    Trust You
    "Follow your instincts and intuition." - Michael
    Image: photostock
  • Sleep is Important 5 of 15
    Sleep is Important
    "Take naps when you're tired." - Sarah
    Image: Danilo Rizzuti
  • Try and Relax 6 of 15
    Try and Relax
    "Don't stress too much." - Martie
    Image: Louisa Stokes
  • Don’t Be Shy 7 of 15
    Don't Be Shy
    "Keep a journal of everything and take pregnancy photos instead of being ashamed of the weight gain." - Candice
    Image: imagerymajestic
  • It’s Ok, Really 8 of 15
    It's Ok, Really
    "It's ok to sleep and rest when the baby sleeps!!!!! It really is." - Nichole
    Image: Dynamite Imageryt
  • You’re Not Alone 9 of 15
    You're Not Alone
    "It's ok to ask for HELP!!!!" - Yesmine
    Image: David Castillo Dominici
  • You’re Important 10 of 15
    You're Important
    "It's ok to make time for yourself...a happy mommy means a happy baby." - Rebecca
    Image: imagerymajestic
  • Food Matters 11 of 15
    Food Matters
    "Eat better. All those things you think are safe and ok to eat are not." - Melissa
    Image: freedigitalphotos
  • Ask Away 12 of 15
    Ask Away
    "Don't be afraid to ask questions, no matter how dumb you may think they sound" - Dena
    Image: zirconicusso
  • Enjoy the Small Things 13 of 15
    Enjoy the Small Things
    "Enjoy the baby time more, have more patience and put the cleaning on hold" - Kathryn
    Image: federico stevanin
  • Count Those Kicks 14 of 15
    Count Those Kicks
    "Kicks count... stillbirth happens, and is devastating. If you are in labor, GO TO THE HOSPITAL, even if the nurses on the phone are telling you not to come in." - Whiteny
    Image: zole4
  • Enjoy This 15 of 15
    Enjoy This
    "Cuddle more, worry less." - Cherith
    Image: phanlop88

Your turn: What advice would you give ‘pre-baby’ you?

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