I sometimes joke that if times were ever to get really rough I’d think about becoming a “dancer.” Times where you can’t pay the bills and rent is due. Luckily, I always work something out. With the man upstairs by my side and the support of family and friends, I am always alright. I make due and sometimes I do very well.
Stripper pole aside, there are a few dating sites that allow women to meet men who either have money, or pay to date women. You know. Like a job. Like an escort. One of my friends has used two of these sites (and by “friends” I don’t mean “me”). Here’s what they are all about.
Sugar Daddy Online
They claim to be the first sugar daddy website. They say they have the finest men and women on the Internet. Doctors, lawyers, benefactors: they are logged on .. and looking for love! My friend found that it’s pretty much old men with money that want a hot thang by their sides. It’s the online version of Hugh Hefner and all of his former “girlfriends.”
What’s Your Price
Women join, receive offers from gentlemen (hopefully!) and then you’ve made a deal. That’s when you collect your dollars and go on one date. Yes, men are paying you to take you out, and they also pay for the date. There is no guarantee that there will be a second date. Women are not forced to keep going out with a man after he paid for the initial date. It’s like you’re an escort without the madam or the obligation to get between the sheets. Like a PG-13 movie. It may also be financially and romantically beneficial. My friend met a man from the site and they have hit it off. If it lasts, well, that’s up to them.
This website threw me for a loop. Men purchase credits to chat with women, yet they don’t ever go on dates. MyGirlFund doesn’t allow users to exchange personal information. If you do, you will be dismissed from the site. So men are paying to chat with women. That. Is. All. Or is it?
It is voluntary, but intimate situations can take place. There is an option for users to use a sex cam. Also, women post photos that are sexual in nature. Still, the relationships consist of chats.
It seems women have many more options now. When bills are due or you’re unemployed and can’t find a job, the “dancer” life isn’t the only way to make due. I am not encouraging it. I’m not sure if I would join any of these sites myself. I would have to be in dire straights. But who knows? I may meet a sugar daddy that is worthwhile or even a man who is worth my price. And maybe, just maybe, I can fall in love, get married and get help with rent.
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