The Babble Sleep Guide

Your toolkit for getting your baby - and yourself! - a good night's rest. by Allison Pennell

June 5, 2009

 
 

How to Scare off Monsters

Armed with a flashlight and some magic monster repellant (eg.  a spray bottle filled with water you can use for a little bedtime exorcism), you'll have those monsters out from under the bed in no time.

 
 
 

How to End Musical Beds

When she gets out of bed, calmly, peacefully and lovingly put her back to bed. EVERY TIME. Kiss her, hug her, rub her back. Even sit or lie next to her until she falls back to sleep if necessary. Don't talk much, and don't turn on any lights. Do choose a key phrase to repeat to her a few times, such as, "It's night-night time now. Mommy loves you. Please stay in your bed and have sweet dreams."

Source: Elizabeth Pantley, author of The No-Cry Sleep Solution

 

   
 

How to Help Him Fall Asleep (And Stay Asleep)

• Serve up a (mostly-banana) banana split for an early evening snack. The high content of potassium, magnesium and serotonin found in bananas promotes relaxation. Other good bedtime snacks: calming carbs. Try a bagel melt with cheese or some peanut butter and honey on toast.

• Teach the art of belly-breathing. At bedtime, have your kids lay down on their backs with eyes closed and tell them to take slow, deep breaths, with their belly pushing out on each intake. You can rub your hands together to heat them and place them on their bellies, a couple of inches above the belly button and then replace your hands with theirs. A couple of minutes should do the trick.

• Calgon, take my child away. A nightly bath helps set the mood.

• Try an eye pillow. It is a novelty for kids and it keeps their eyes closed long enough to fall asleep.

• Exchange back massages and head rubs. Just don’t fall asleep while getting yours.

   

 
 

How to Evict a Kid from the Family Bed

Pimp that room. A little redecorating will go a long way to transitioning a kid to his own room. Think: his own hand-picked cool new bed or bedding, a sign for the door, some new wall art, a special transitional object like a little silk blanket or stuffed animal.

Bedtime Rituals. Start with a week of jammies and books in his room, not yours, but let him keep sleeping with you. Next, have him set up a sleeping spot next to your bed week two (as opposed to in it).

Make your move. Set a date for the big move of one week later. Mark your calendar. Talk it up. And make sure that along with the heave-ho, you give him lots of kisses, lengthy cuddles at light's out and return as needed for reassurance. During this transition period, welcome your kid back into your bed if he comes calling in the middle of the night.

Source: Jodi Mindell, author of Sleeping Through the Night

 
 
 

5 Short Stress-Breaks for Sleep Deprived Parents.

Rub Down. For an endorphin shot, try these pressure points: Ears. Gently tugging and rubbing your ears will relax you and clear out your sinuses. Shoulders. Deep kneading with your fingertips releases tension from tissues and gets the oxygen flowing.

Mix It Up. Studies say a change of tunes can mean a change of moods. Type in an artist or song you like at Pandora.com and listen to a free custom playlist.

Treat Yourself. Re-charge with snacks high in stress-busting antioxidants like a handful of almonds or blueberries or that ideal chill-pill, vitamin C.

Stay hydrated. When your energy is dwindling, drink a glass of water or juice.

Power Nap. It only takes 20 minutes to do the trick. Human circadian rhythms make late afternoons a more likely time to fall into deep sleep, which will leave you groggy, so better to nap just after lunch or late in the morning. Set the alarm so you don't sleep too long.

 


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About the Author

author bio Allison Pennell is a writer on all things kid. She lives in Brooklyn with her often disobedient but always lovable offspring, husband, dog, and morbidly obese cat. Oh, and 14 fish.

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