Aela Mass

Trying to get knocked up since 2011.


Aela Mass is a lesbian writer and editor living on Martha's Vineyard with her wife and their dog, Darla. She miscarried her twins at 17 weeks, and suffered another miscarriage three years later at 10 weeks. She has undergone numerous IVF, FET, and IUI cycles. Her wife has also miscarried. Through it all, she shares the light and the dark of her journey.


None on this earth; four in heaven.

Fun Facts

  • The amount of coffee I drink in a day:

    Zero! My body can't tolerate caffeine — motor mouth, pounding heart, and trembling hands for a solid 12 hours.

  • 3 things I can't live without:

    Q-tips, sunshine, and comfortable shoes.

  • If I could swap places with someone for a day, it would be:

    My wife so that I could see what it's like to make so many people smile in one day.

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