I’ve been married for nearly 16 years and my wife is still the sexiest woman I know, but she doesn’t always see herself the way that I see her. Sometimes she allows her insecurities to affect her self-confidence. It’s during those times that I work to build her confidence and convince her that she will always be desirable to me.
As a husband, you must constantly remind your wife of her sex appeal. Factors such as media images of women, poorly lit dressing rooms, and the stresses of life can impact how your spouse sees herself. Your words and actions have the power to counteract these negative influences. If you do these 8 things, you can boost your wife’s confidence and make your her feel sexy.
1. Compliment Her
Don’t wait for your wife to ask you how she looks: take the initiative and give her a compliment. Why? If your wife has to fish for it, she will feel as if you’re complimenting her out of obligation, but complimenting her when she’s least expecting it, she will be less likely to question your intention. And do it frequently! Never allow a day to pass without giving your wife a compliment not only on her appearance, but also on her intellect, parenting abilities, and other areas that you admire.
2. Notice The Little Things
Noticing the little things will go a long way towards making your wife feel sexy. I made the mistake of not noticing my wife had colored her hair. A week had passed before she informed me of my oversight. I knew I had goofed, and I couldn’t use my color-blindness as an excuse. That said, that incident taught me to pay closer attention to her hairstyles, makeup, and clothing. You need to become a student of your wife. Learn all you can about her. When she changes something, be sure to mention it. Even if you don’t know exactly what’s different, mention it anyway. Your wife will appreciate the effort.
3. Flirt With Her
When you were dating your wife, you were a better flirt that Don Juan. Now is the time to reclaim your flirting mojo. Do things to make your wife laugh. Gently caress her face. Hold her hand. Surprise her with small gifts. Make her feel the butterflies in her stomach all over again.
4. Ogle Her
It’s okay to check out your wife. Men are visual creatures, and we are stimulated by what we see. Let your wife catch you staring at her. When she asks about it, tell her that you can’t keep your eye off her and how much watching her turns you on. Also, keep in mind that eye contact is a powerful aphrodisiac.
5. Show Her Some PDA
Keep the passion in your relationship by openly being affectionate with your wife, and don’t worry about who’s watching! Grab your wife, pull her close to you, and give her a passionate kiss. Make her, and everyone around you, see how much you desire her.
6. Listen To Her
Men often want to fix problems, but sometimes our wives just want us to listen. When she’s talking, resist the urge to add your commentary. Just listen. Make her feel like she is the most important person on the planet at that moment.
7. Make Her Feel Special
Sometimes women don’t feel sexy because they don’t feel appreciated. It is your job to make your wife feel special. Let her know you think she’s a great mom. Buy her flowers for no reason. Do some of her household chores without her asking. These are easy things to do, but they will mean so much to your wife.
8. Tell Her
Having deep conversations with your wife will build a strong connection. Tell her how much you desire her. Let her know that you think she’s sexy. When you’re apart, leave a love note on the bathroom mirror, send sexy text messages throughout the day, or just call her to let her know you’re thinking about her.