My third FET (frozen embryo transfer) was two days ago. I have 8 more days before I find out if I’m pregnant or not. You can imagine how slowly this time period seems to drags on for.
I do a lot of praying and waiting and waiting and praying and praying and hoping and hoping and waiting. I also over analyze every twinge and cramp.
Oh, and of course I Google every possible topic: implantation bleeding; earliest signs of pregnancy; how soon do pregnancy tests work; and on and on. Since this is my third FET (my 5th fertility cycle), I’m less anxious as previous attempts. I think that just comes with the territory. As much as I want this cycle to be the cycle, you get a little more used to the reality of your chances with each failed attempt.
So this go-round, I’m stressing less. I find myself thinking about more substantial transfer-related topics instead of getting excited over some minor spotting (which might be a sign of implantation bleeding; I had some yesterday).
Aside from all the speculation that occurs during the 2 week wait (which is really only a 10 day wait for IVF moms), there’s actually some legit things going on after a successful embryo transfer. I was happy to be able to turn to NYU Fertility Center for the day-by-day breakdown of the what happens after an embryo transfer:
The blastocyst begins to hatch out of its shell.
The blastocyst continues to hatch out of its shell and begins to attach itself to the uterus
The blastocyst attaches deeper into the uterine lining, beginning implantation
Implantation is complete, cells that will eventually become the placenta and fetus have begun to develop
Human chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) starts to enter the blood stream
Days 7 + 8:
Fetal development continues and hCG continues to be secreted
Levels of hCG are now high enough to detect a pregnancy
Those are the successful beginning steps of pregnancy, and they’re what I’m praying is happening as you read this.
Eight more days.