Has your husband ever asked you to model for him? Or is this something you would love to do, but aren’t sure how he would react to it? Either way, you should model for him. It will be a great thing for your marriage!
What do I mean “model” for him?
I mean what you think it means. I mean wear something he’d like to see you wear, and model it. Something that just may stimulate intimate activities. Even if you are years away from fitting your wedding dress size, and he is the same with his tux size, still model for him.
I’m guessing he is still attracted to you, so he’d love to see you modeling and seducing him. But there are some other reasons you should be doing it as well.
Here are 7 reasons you should “model” for him.
7 Reasons You Should "Model" for Him 1 of 8
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Other women are modeling for him daily 2 of 8
Your husband is constantly being hit with messages on a daily basis. TV, internet, magazines in the checkout line, and almost everywhere he goes there are sexual images being marketed and promoted. He is bombarded. Modeling for him will plant your image in his mind and help him to keep moving when the other images are presented.
Explicit sexual content is big business and aimed at men 3 of 8
With the good comes the bad. The internet and technology have provided many good things. But the ability to get pornographic content is at an all time high. Don't let your husband's visual references be to something that is fake. Be the real deal for him. You can keep it clean, or to your level of comfort. But you are real, and you are really his. That other stuff his fake.
It can be fun 4 of 8
If you are uncomfortable in your own skin, this may help you get comfortable 5 of 8
You might be saying, "there is no way I am doing that!" The reason might be you have a few insecurities because your body does't look like it used to. Modeling for your husband and seeing his enjoyment may help you to get over that and feel comfortable in your own skin.
Keep him guessing 6 of 8
If you have never modeled for him before, then he just might be surprised in a really good way. Many marriages get stale and old because they do the same things day in and day out. That includes the intimacy in the relationship. Surprise him and see how he responds.
Depending upon to what extent you take it…it could be exercise. 7 of 8
You both enjoy a good laugh 8 of 8
What if you or your husband are just completely uncomfortable with this whole "modeling" idea, and the thought is pretty embarrassing to you both. Model for him anyway. Be as silly as you want and let it be as embarrassing as it can get. You are married for life, so as long as you are embarrassed together everything can still be alright.
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